Living in China was an incredible experience. We loved our job, the people we met, and everything about being there. While we have countless fond memories, every place has its downsides. Here are some aspects we found challenging about living in China:
1. Air Quality: The pollution was something we couldn’t escape. There were days we couldn’t even see out of our window. Depending on the time of year, the air quality could vary from decent to terrible. We ended up with a “China cough” almost daily.
2. Smoking: We didn’t realize before traveling that nearly every man in China smokes. Despite “no smoking” signs in public places like trains and restaurants, smoking was still common, and it seemed like nobody minded.
3. Public Urination: This was tough to get used to. Kids have slits in their pants for easy bathroom access, which often means they go right on the street, into garbage cans, supermarkets, or train stations, even if a bathroom is nearby.
4. Spitting and Farmer’s Blows: While we get that people need to clear mucus from their lungs, it’s not pleasant to see or hear. We wish tissues were used more often.
5. Driving: Driving in China is chaotic. We’ve been to many places with bad drivers, but China tops the list. No one checks their blind spots, pedestrians don’t have the right-of-way, and drivers speed and swerve recklessly. Accidents are frequent, and both parties often end up shouting at each other, even when both are at fault.
6. Our Bed: Our backs have been grateful since we left. No amount of padding could make the bed comfortable.
7. Yelling at Children: Parents and grandparents often scream at and smack their children, a practice we personally disagree with.
8. MSG and Oily Food: While we love Chinese food for its delicious variety, the high amounts of MSG and oil can be overwhelming. The sodium content is particularly concerning.
9. Animosity Toward Japanese: We were surprised by the intense animosity some Chinese people have for the Japanese, likely influenced by historical events like those during WWII. Hearing consistently racist remarks from our students was difficult to accept.
10. Being Tall: This isn’t China’s fault, but as taller individuals (I’m 5’10” and Nick is 6’0”), it was challenging to find clothes that fit and to use furniture and bicycles designed for shorter people.
Every country has its pros and cons. Despite these challenges, living in China was an amazing and unforgettable experience that we will always cherish.
Goodbye China, you will be missed!